Protecting children from harmful material + people on the internet
Some web pages and content on the Internet are not suitable for all audiences. Below is a listing of different steps you can do to help ensure your child is protected from harmful material or web pages you believe are not suitable for your children.
Talk to your children about the dangers of the Internet and what they should not do while on the Internet. Below is a basic listing of what you may consider discussing with your child.
Personal Information – Never give personal information about yourself in chat rooms, web pages, or online forms. This includes age, area code, e-mail address, home address, home city, Internet Service Provider name, other location related information, passwords, personal web page, phone (mobile phone) numbers, pictures of yourself, school name, school grade, school web page, or even your postcode.
Never meet someone – Never agree to meet an individual from the Internet without the parents or guardian at the agreed meeting location.
Internet Purchases – Never enter an area that costs money, requires a credit card, requires personal information, asks for passwords without explicit permission from the parents or a parent present.
Downloads – Never accept a file or download from another user without asking a parent first.
Web page – Do not visit web pages that are sent to you in e-mail, chat, or instant messengers without a parent or guardian present.
Gifts – Never accept any gift from users you meet online.
Friends – Don’t give out your friends information as it could be tied to you.
Personal pictures – Never send someone a personal picture online or on a mobile phone.
Talking about sex or provocative images – When online don’t talk about sex, post provocative images, or tease other people online. If it makes you feel uncomfortable – TALK to an parent !!!
Talk to you – If your child ever witnesses something that upsets them or makes them feel uncomfortable, make sure they know it’s OK to talk with you.
Monitor or browse the Internet with your kids and try to keep the computer in an open area. Don’t allow your child to have their own computer in their own room. If you need to monitor your children’s use while you’re away consider a third-party filter programs that help protect your computer from inappropriate sites. Users using Microsoft Internet Explorer can help protect their family from harmful material by enabling Internet Explorer Content Advisor.
View Internet History
Make sure your child is not viewing any web pages they should not be viewing by looking at the Internet browser’s history or make sure they are not deleting the history in order to hide what they are viewing.
Look at the browser address bar or location bar for additional information about what was typed in the browser address bar.
View Facebook/Instagram/Snapchat/Twitter Friends
If your computer has any online social media programs that your child is a member of, make sure that their friend list or buddy list doesn’t have anyone you do not know of. Unfortunately these locations are also frequently visited by online predators because of online pictures and personal information posted by many of users participating on them. If you allow your children to use these sites make sure they are not posting personal information about themselves as mentioned earlier in this document. We also strongly encourage that parents or the child who setup the account set their profile to private so only their friends and family can view the profile. You join too – Become their friend. It’s a good idea that if your child is on a social networking site that you do the same and become their friend. Doing this is a great way to see what your child is doing and posting.
On a Personal Note:
This was a rule of thumb with my children (who are now adults I might add and it’s still nice to know that they are there and I am Always watching ) but I joined the social media programs when they were of age – and they became “my friend” (this was a rule of mine) and so did their friends (not a rule, but just because I could). As the children get smarter and realise how to “block” things from the parents, their friends DON’T block you because you are NOT their parent.. I know its a sneaky way of “keeping in touch” but it is also a way of just “making sure” things are A.O.K.
Know the lingo
The Internet especially with younger users is full of acronyms, lingo, codes, and other terms that can be used to disguise what is being talked about. See the top 10 terms every parent should know for commonly used terms and codes and links to further information.
If your computer has any digital camera or webcam connected to it prohibit your child from using it without your presence or if you can – disconnect or disable it when you’re not using it.
Watch school websites
Protect them in games
Many children and adults play online games. Just like the Internet children should know not to give out any personal information to other players or participate in any trading of in-game items for in-game services or real life personal information.